31.8.08
Our Sunday
15.8.08
Change of season
Role reversal
Well, Chen-jie has been bringing Ryo to the playground for the past few weeks. Meanwhile I stayed at home to do the housework. It's kind of silly, you may think, to pay for a maid then do the housework myself... haha.
But really I enjoy the time alone. The fact is Ryo is having his stick-to-mama-all-the-time syndrome again, even peeing and shower time, so I really need to get him away from him.
And we decided not to send him to school this September, I think he's not ready yet.Though I have to get Chenjie to play with him more.
7.8.08
Clubmed Bintan
Yippee, we went to Clubmed at Bintan right after my birthday. It was totally fun-packed with swimming and beach activities.
Since the Olympics is just around the corner, I took this opportunity to showcase my water-jumping skills, I hope I'll make it into the 2024 games.
27.7.08
Ryo is 2
18.7.08
Bowling
11.7.08
Hold that bottle
My friend
3.7.08
Baby Banz sunglasses
1.7.08
14.6.08
New and old
8.6.08
Farewell to the pacifier
Mama Ann says:
The papa is having his 3 days holiday, so I took this good time to wean Ryo off his pacifier. My reasoning is in case Ryo cries through the night, Isaac will not be affected since he does not have to work.
We started when Ryo was about to have his afternoon nap. He asked for his beloved "zhu-ar", and I told him a story that his pacifier had took the aeroplane back to Singapore. Of course he cried, and wailed for about half an hour before falling asleep exhausted.
Throughout the day he did asked about it a few times and we told him the same story. At night he was able to tell me his pacifier had flown away in the aeroplane. And fell asleep without making too much fuss, nor crying. Which is very good.
And the papa was saying," So easy you succeeded ar?"
29.5.08
Look at him dance
Ryo's favourite show is Barney. He's watched a few of Barney's show and now he'll dance with him. They have many songs with different dance moves, and he knows when to touch his toes or wiggle his bum or clap his hands.
Computer geek
15.5.08
Earthquake
I felt the tremors at home when the earthquake in Sichuan happened. I was in Tianjin, very very far away from the epicentre, and I felt it. It must have been very serious. We watched the news every morning and night, there were many pictures of children trapped under huge pillars, groaning for help in pain. Some of them held hands, giving each other support. Few were lucky enough to be saved.
Now that I'm a mother, I understand the pain of losing a child. Somemore these children are the only child in their extended family. There was a scene where a rescuer was asking a child of her condition, and she replied," both my arms and legs were broken". These pictures make me sad, and grateful that I am alive, and my family is alive.
12.5.08
Happy Mothers Day
7.5.08
School
I've register Ryo for school. The kindergarten is supposed to be a good one. It should be. It costs rmb2000 per month for school fees (the highest of all i've heard). An ordinary kindergarten would only cost rmb600 or so. Well, it really is because Ryo's class has only 10 children compared to 20 in normal circumstances. I feel more comfortable with the idea that his needs can be met with a lower teacher-student ratio.
School starts in September. We have only a few more months to kick his pacifier, pillow and diaper off.
He is pretty talkative
Ryo is really talking more. Sometimes he can talk in sentences, and long sentences I mean. Although we don't really understand what he is babbling about, but he looks really cute when he talks like that to us.
New vocabulary, he can understand a lot more words than he can say:
- haha: when he wants to play the MSN wink ie. the laughing woman
- 泡:when he wants me to prepare milk
- 脚:臭脚
- 臭:meaning his poo poo
- 高高: meaning 叠高高
- 冲:冲凉
- 睡觉
- 躺
- 菜
- kult: meaning Yakult, his favourite drink
- 公公:阿公
- 姨:阿姨
- 姥姥:when he calls 外婆
- 舅舅
- 鞋
- 坐:he decides where we sit
- 开
- 下
- draw
- ten
- 八
- star, are, high: in the Twinkle little star song
- bowl
- pur pur: meaning apple
- nana: meaning banana
- 不要:his favourite word
- 倒:跌倒
- 头:sometimes also meaning 枕头
- 早
- 蛋蛋:鸡蛋
- 肉肉:肉
2.5.08
What a guy!
28.4.08
Acute Bronchitis
Coughing is really an old friend. Since young, I can cough for a month long every year, and I had deemed it on my poor health, and really, non of the "western" medicine worked for me, though chinese medicine did some good.
3 weeks ago, both Ryo and I fell sick. He had gingivostomatis, I had sore throat and cough. My priority is him of cos, I really never bothered much about my cough thinking it's the usual stuff again.
But after subsiding a bit, the sore throat is now back and I'm still coughing. I decided to head back to the doctor (in Tianjn, yes) and he concluded I have acute bronchitis. He put me on antibiotics(I hate that) and the anticholinergic bronchodilator. The latter needs me to breathe through a tube from a machine similar to a humidifier, and I have to do this for 20mins for a week.
Now I am blessed as my inlaws who have came to visit us. And Ryo is under their great care while I can "repair" my body. Although it's really coincidental that everytime they came, it's either me or Ryo who had to visit the hospital. That is if you have read our sickly episodes of baby bronchitits, Gastritis and Roseola infantum .
25.4.08
Fill in the blanks
Mama Ann says:
Ryo can fill in the blanks when i sing a song. Ok pardon my lousy singing.
17.4.08
Gingivostomatitis

We are at our bad days again, Ryo and I are both sick. He has gingivostomatitis, that is his mouth is full of sores. He is feeling very terrible, he has gone without solids for a week, depending solely on milk. Although he can still play, he refuses to drink water all day. Today I have resorted to forcing water down his throat for fear of dehydration.
And forcing medicine and water down his throat can amount to 8 to 10 times a day, that is pretty scary for a small child, and very stressful for a parent. Still it has to be done. His symptoms are quite similar to HFMD, he's just without sores on his hands nor feet. I hope it does not develop into HFMD.
Below is an excerpt from Babycenter.com:
What is gingivostomatitis?
Gingivostomatitis is the long name for a condition that results in a very sore mouth. It's caused by a viral infection and is common in children. The symptoms can be mild or severe. While it can be disconcerting to see sores in your toddler's mouth — and to know that she hurts — usually there's no cause for worry.Most people carry around the viruses that can cause the condition. In fact, your toddler's bout of gingivostomatitis may be her initial infection with the herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1), which most people pick up in early childhood and carry for the rest of their lives. The initial infection usually goes unnoticed, but if it does make itself known, it does so in the form of gingivostomatitis. (HSV-1 can cause cold sores, too.)Gingivostomatitis can also be caused by a coxsackie virus, the culprit in hand, foot and mouth disease and herpangina.
What are the symptoms?
The sores are small (about 1 to 5 millimeters in diameter), grayish or yellowish in the middle, and red around the edges. Their severity and location depend on which virus is causing the gingivostomatitis.Your toddler may have sores on her gums (also called the gingiva), on the inside of her cheeks, in the back of her mouth, or on her tonsils, tongue, or soft palate. Her gums may be inflamed and may bleed easily.Because the sores can be very painful, your toddler will probably be irritable, may drool more than usual, and won't feel like eating or drinking much. She may also have bad breath and a high fever (up to 104 degrees), and the lymph nodes on the sides of her neck may be swollen and tender.Note: In rare cases, gingivostomatitis that's caused by herpes can spread to the eye and infect the cornea. Herpes simplex keratitis, as such an infection is called, can cause permanent eye damage. Take your toddler to the doctor right away if she has gingivostomatitis and you notice that her eyes look watery and red or that she's sensitive to light — both early symptoms of herpes simplex keratitis.
How is gingivostomatitis treated?
Because this is a viral infection, antibiotics won't help. The sores in your toddler's mouth should be gone in a week or two. Here are a few things you can do to make her more comfortable and keep her otherwise healthy while she has it:
• Children's acetaminophen or ibuprofen can help relieve pain and lower fever. (Never give aspirin to anyone under the age of 20. It can trigger a rare but dangerous illness called Reye's syndrome.) If the pain is so severe that your toddler won't eat even with the help of these over-the-counter pain medications, your doctor may prescribe a stronger pain medicine.
• Though she may not want to drink because swallowing is painful, it's extremely important that your child get enough fluids. Try offering her cool, nonacidic, noncarbonated drinks such as water, milkshakes, or diluted apple juice. Dehydration can sneak up rapidly, especially in young children — this is the one complication to be aware of if your child has gingivostomatitis. Call the doctor if your child goes for more than six hours without urinating or taking in liquid, or if she shows any signs of dehydration.
• Try offering cool, soothing foods such frozen pops, ice cream, or frozen yogurt, or bland foods that don't require chewing, such as mashed potatoes, yogurt, or applesauce.
Can gingivostomatitis be prevented?
Because so many adults and children carry the herpes virus, and because they can pass it (and the coxsackie virus) on even if they have no symptoms, there's no practical way to prevent gingivostomatitis. You can, however, try to keep your child from kissing, sharing food, or playing in close contact with people who have an active herpes infection or any other mouth sores. (That includes you, if you happen to have an outbreak.) And to protect others, your toddler should do likewise during the course of her illness.
If your toddler's sores are caused by the herpes virus, the virus will stay in her body for life. The good news is that the first episode of gingivostomatitis is usually the worst, and it won't necessarily be a frequent plague.
7.4.08
No cholesterol diet
It's been a month since I started my no-cholesterol diet, and I must say I did a pretty good job in avoiding high cholesterol food.
In fact, now that I'm in Tianjin, I'm in better control. I've turned mostly vegetarian, my last fish was a week ago. I still have energy, or rather I have more energy than before. Perhaps it was my high cholesterol that was making me feel tired and dizzy last time that I had no mood to do things. Now I seldom nap with Ryo and even have energy to tidy his toys, do housework and read.
Pat pat Ann, well done, keep it going.
I love soup
Ryo says:
I discovered they (papa and mama) were having great soup and decided I want to try some too. It was simply delicious, I had many servings. Slurps!!
4.4.08
Back in Tianjin
We are back in Tianjin, finally, after about 4 months stay in Spore. I couldn't wait to come back, in fact.
The flight back was good, with Ryo behaving quite well and slept throughout. He also was moderately well behaved in the 2 hour car ride from the Beijing airport to Tianjin, and managed to sleep too. And both of us nap the whole afternoon away (4 hours!) when we reached home. It wasn't so bad as compared to previous times, maybe because I was pretty excited and happy to come back.
The downside though, he had eye irritation that caused him to have crusty eyes when he wakes up in the morning. A check with babycenter.com, it says it's bacteria and will go away in a few days. Babycenter.com always has answers for me, and sets my worries away. Doo dee doo dee doo.
26.3.08
Four years
7.3.08
It's getting dangerous
Mama Ann says:
His motor skills are getting very much better. He managed to climb up the sofa this way within the first few tries. We need an empty house soon.
MMR vaccine
1.3.08
High cholesterol
Oops, I have high cholesterol. That explains my dizziness and heart pain recently.
I'm actually pleasantly happy, not that i'm not worried about the high cholesterol, but happy because now I have the "license" to go on a diet. Ya, a doctor's order to go on a strict diet indeed, the rightful excuse to turn away all the meat and snacks present to me everyday. I can only take fish in the meat group, goodbye to my favourite chicken thigh.
And i think i can do it, when my mind is set to do something.
22.2.08
More words
- mama and papa... finally
- ah ma....but not yet ah gong
- ball
- 破
- 掉
- no no no
- 奕... that's his name and he says that when we go 遥遥遥, 遥到外婆桥...
- 要
On physical development, he can
- really walk up and down stairs all by himself without holding onto the rails sometimes
- go up and slide down the slide by himself
- take off his socks
- eat nuts or bigger chunks of food
- wave and kiss bye bye
- imitate driving a car
- use a fork clumsily
On emotion development, he is:
- less shy than last time, but still shy nonetheless
- seriously addicted to his pacifier and pillow
- able to throw tantrums
- capable of teasing others. eg he offers Brexton a food but pulls it back when Brexton opens his mouth
- less koala syndrome
- able to show jealousy
Star cruise
Ok I know my parents went to Phuket without me, but I get to go on a cruise after they come back. In fact the whole family went.
I had lots of fun swimming especially. I even went out to the sea, Lankston kor kor was afraid to touch the sea water though.
I am still fair even after so much sun. My mama, hehe, is like 3 tones darker, though she put on sun block.
Clubmed Phuket
Can you see the blue sky and the sea? Yes this is Clubmed Phuket.
After CNY, me and isaac went to Clubmed in Phuket for a getaway. That is me getting away from Ryo, and Isaac getting away from work. Well, it was pretty relaxing with lots of massages and great food and the beach and sea. I even get onto the parasail too.
27.1.08
More is not always good
I did a check online and found a few articles (not just one source) that say a toddler needs just 16-24 ounces of milk a day, if he is fed more than this, it'll fill him up and leaves less space for other food.
Ryo has already hit the upper limit, i think it explains why he's not too interested in other food sometimes.
I really don't like to be ask why he's not given milk every 3 hours, over and over again? I think every 3 hourly is for small babies. Toddlers have slow down their growth, thus reducing their need for milk.
26.1.08
Zoo trip
24.1.08
Ouch ouch
Mama Ann says:
Whenever we are back in Singapore, we'll catch up on Ryo's vaccination. This time he is having the shots for:
- Hepatitis A
- Chicken pox
- Pneumoccocol (3rd and last dose)
- MMR
Since the Chicken pox and the Pneumoccocol shots can be administered at the same time, Ryo had each of them on both his buttocks (see picture). Of course he brawled. The fever was very mild considering two shots, and did not last more than a day.
19.1.08
Sleepless
It's 1.30am, I just can't get to sleep, I guess it'll stay this way for the next few days.
The compeling feeling is creeping back. Really, I wish I could fly back to Tianjin now. If not for Ryo's vaccination, I don't think I like to be back so early. Please please fly time faster to end of Feb.
17.1.08
Complains
I guess I'm always a topic of complains, behind my back that is. But sometimes through conversation I get comfirmation of my guess. It made me miss Tianjin all the more.
I'm gonna stay there as much as possible. Do whatever I like. My way. My idea.
Suck! I dislike acting. Life is about acting.
8.1.08
He can scream
Mama Ann says:
Ryo can scream along with Little Miss Muffet. The nursery rhyme goes like this:
Little Miss Muffet sat on a tuffet
Eating her curds and whey
Along came a spider and sat down beside her (SCREAM!!!)
And frightened Miss Muffet away
4.1.08
Jam
Ryo says:
Let me show you how to make strawberry jam.
- First you squeeze a strawberry in your hand till you have juice dripping out
- then place the strawberry on the table, pat it a few times to get pulp
- wipe the pulp from left to right on the table
- have a taste and you are done
Making jam is hard work, look at my sweat!
2.1.08
Who's on the dots?
Busy month
We've been back for a month, and I think the past month was a bit busy and crazy. Why?
- Lankston's mummy went back to m'sia, we (3 adults) have to handle Lankston, Brexton and Ryo and that's quite crazy especially at meal times.
- We have a new maid at home, who cannot cook much, we have to eat out most of times. So I spent an average of 5 hours outside the house everyday for meals.
How I miss Tianjin, where I have more time to myself and my maid did most things for me, haha. Next year I won't wanna come back so early.
28.12.07
Baby kiss
Mama Ann says:
Ryo and Brexton just cannot get enough of each other, whenever they see each other, they run towards each other and kiss.
21.12.07
Limping
Mama Ann says:
When Ryo started to limp, his Ah Ma thought the worst, and tried to scare me by saying he is going to get paralysed if he is not treated at all. I for one is not so worried by his limp and thought his limp is due to a normal sprain of his leg and will recover in due time. His leg was not swelling nor he in pain.
But after some nags, I just gave in and we brought him to a chinese sinseh. He was forced to lie on the bed with us pressing him down while the sinseh twisted and turned and made the crack sound and he annouced that one of Ryo' leg was 1cm shorter than the other and if he does not get well in two days he has to go for xray.
Half a day passed and he was still limping, his Ah Ma was already worried sick and continued to think of all the possible things that could go wrong. She wanted to go ask the god, but I said it's not even two days.
Anyway two days passed, we brought him to the padiatrician, after deciding between her and the xray. Lucky we chose her. She said it's the viral infection on the ligament that's causing his limping. Not from a fall, nor a leg pulled too hard. Neither does it require a xray as you can't see ligament from xray. An MRI, which can see ligament, cost thousands of dollars and requires a baby to be SEDATED!!! She prescribed Brufen(medicine for high fever) to help reduce the inflammation and told us to wait for two weeks.
After two days of Brufen Ryo is no longer limping.
17.12.07
13.12.07
Dog pee 2
Mama Ann says:
Ryo has upgraded his dog pee stunt to a standing position. He can even do it when he is running.
Anyway Ryo can walk down steps by himself while holding onto the rails. This morning I brought him to the playground and I made him walked back himself, including walking up and down the stairs and over little drains.
11.12.07
We are back in Singapore
Yippee, I am back to this hot hot homeland. I slept most of the time on the plane, and missed my childmeal breakfast :(
4.12.07
Bear bear jacket
1.12.07
Bowling
Recently so many people have visited me. First it was great aunt Dorothy, then uncle kai and uncle xuan, then great grandma and grandpa.
We went bowling with uncle kai and uncle xuan, can u see me cheering them?
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